About Us
We want you to understand the team makeup. We feel this is crucial for you to understand where the cards came from and our passion for marriages.
We are not professional counselors! We want you to know that we have been where you are. We are managers, we work in the oil field, we are business owners, and we are teachers. We have been through the ups and downs of marriages, we have suffered through and watched our friends suffer through divorces. We have seen financial struggles and parenting struggles. We are not marriage experts but we have a heart and a passion to help marriages be successful.
Each and every day we choose to let God guide our marriages. Each one of us has chosen to put our spouses' needs above our own. We choose marriage and we choose to honor the promise we made to our spouse in front of God.
We use the cards! We use them in our cars, in our small groups, with our kids. They are a difference maker!. The cards have enriched our lives and our relationships and we can see a difference. We are learning to have the hard conversations that might have been avoided in the past. They are helping us avoid future problems and they are helping those around us. They can help you too!
Our Message
Welcome to Solomon’s Psalm. We are driven by a passion to see your marriage be everything God has intended it to be, inspired by the Song of Solomon. Chapter 1 is a beautiful love story of how Solomon and his bride felt for each other, a true confession of Love.
God’s desire is for you to love your spouse as God loved the church. Having a Godly marriage will allow you to experience all that God has in store for you.
Marriages are full of constant ups and downs. True Battles! We look at other marriages and see perfection but maybe see failure in ours. Oftentimes, our marriage begins a downward spiral before we even know. Asking for help is hard, it's hard to admit we are struggling, many times we have no idea where to turn for help and many times it's too late.
We want to encourage and help you find success in Your marriage - A good marriage is one that works for you. We are passionate about helping you learn strategies to not only be able to communicate, but to learn to have conversations - they are different. Communication is different for men and women, we often think we are good communicators but are you good at conversation? Can you be open minded about your spouses point of view, opinions, and concerns? Can we hear things we don’t want to hear and not be defensive or get mad? No matter who you are - IT TAKES PRACTICE!
A conversation is a discussion (not an argument) where both sides are considerate of the other person’s point of view. We created a set of cards to help spark conversation between you and your spouse. By using the cards, you and your spouse can hopefully have a real conversation about real issues that will arise in your marriage, heading off a potential Battle. They will help prepare you for real life situations and improve your communication skills through the power of conversation.
The cards are designed to meet you in your marriage no matter what stage you might be in. Using the cards can help you have discussions that help you in your current situation but will help you to prepare for all the things the future may have in store such as moves, careers, kids, empty nesting, etc. Use them in the car as you drive, small groups at church, as a marriage counseling tool, a gift for newlyweds, mentoring young married couples. The options are endless.